You feel more like roommates than partners
The love is still there, but daily life has made connection feel harder to reach.

Faith-led marriage coaching
Honest conversations, practical tools, and the balanced perspective of a husband and wife who believe your relationship is worth tending.
Free 30-minute discovery call with Henry and Alexandra.
Our guiding truth
Not the kind of love that ignores hard things. The kind that chooses honesty, extends grace, and keeps creating an intentional life—together.

19 years
of choosing each other
Our story
We’re Henry Diaz and Alexandra Diaz-Izurieta—19 years together, 17 years married, and still learning what it means to love each other with intention. Our life together has given us joy, stretching seasons, honest conversations, and a deep respect for the work a meaningful marriage asks of us.
As Certified Relationship Life Coaches and Maxwell Leadership Certified Team Members, we blend sound coaching practices with the grounded wisdom of two people who are living the work, too.
“We’re not here to take sides. We’re here to help you find each other again.”
Who coaching is for
The love is still there, but daily life has made connection feel harder to reach.
You want to communicate with more honesty and less defensiveness, blame, or withdrawal.
Your marriage is not in crisis. You simply believe a meaningful relationship deserves intention.
Our approach
Our signature framework: The Not Enemies Method.
Recognize the patterns, needs, and stories shaping how you respond to each other.
Stop fighting each other and start facing the problem together.
Restore safety, honesty, and follow-through, one conversation at a time.
Build daily rhythms of faith, affection, and intention that keep your marriage growing.
How it works
There is no perfect formula for marriage. There is a thoughtful process for slowing down, listening well, and taking the next right step together.
Begin with a thoughtful consultation where we listen to what feels important now.
Together, we identify your priorities and shape a coaching plan around your marriage.
Practice new tools between sessions and turn insight into lasting, everyday change.
A little time together
Get our free 7-Day Couples Prayer Challenge, a simple daily practice to pray, talk, and reconnect.
Coaching options
One 75-minute session
$297
Focused support for one specific conversation, transition, or relationship goal.
4 private sessions
$897
Founding rate
A guided reset for couples ready to understand patterns and rebuild connection.
9 private sessions
$1,697
Founding rate
Deeper support for couples committed to meaningful, sustained transformation.
Our faith foundation
We believe faith invites grace, humility, and hope into the work of loving well. We will always honor your story rather than offer easy answers.
“Let all that you do be done in love.”1 Corinthians 16:14
Meet your coaches

Husband · Father · Certified Relationship Life Coach
Henry brings calm perspective, practical wisdom, and a grounded way of helping couples move from intention to action. He believes strength in marriage looks like curiosity, humility, and the willingness to keep showing up. He is a Maxwell Leadership Certified Team Member.

Wife · Mother · Certified Relationship Life Coach
Alexandra brings warmth, emotional insight, and a gift for helping people name what sits beneath the surface. She creates space for honest reflection without shame—and believes tenderness can be a powerful form of courage. She is a Maxwell Leadership Certified Team Member.
What makes us different
Two perspectives in the room, held with care—not sides.
We bring 19 years of shared life and 17 years of marriage.
Simple, useful practices designed for real conversations and real life.
Faith shapes our foundation while grace makes room for your story.
Coaching in English, Spanish, or the Spanglish that feels like home.
The next chapter
You don’t need every answer to take the first step. You only need the willingness to begin a different conversation.